Here is something I wrote just before we had Jacob. In honor of Mother's Day I thought I would share with the world how awesome my parents are!
As we prepare to become parents for the first time, I can't help but think of the example you individually, and as a couple, have been to me. I am so grateful to have such wonderful parents. James and I, of course, have much on our own that we want to try and impart to our family, but there is much I want to model after you. Not only that, but as we prepare to move on to a new stage in our life I am so grateful for the experience we have had before this time. Our trips to New York, to Europe, Chicago, or just last minute plans to go to dinner.
Dad, you like to laugh, you enjoy people and crowds and excitement. You like to try new things and find new places and share them with others. You respect people and ideas while holding firm to your own. People tell me all the time what a great guy you are ( I always tell them I agree). People like you, like to work for you, and to be with you because you value people. You are always encouraging and look for the positive in things in life and in people. You like doing things for those you love and truly believe it is better to give than to receive. I especially remember you giving us gifts at Fathers Day, you making a special dinner for mom just to be nice, you saving your change to give us shopping money in New York, etc. You are so very generous with all that you have. You truly believe life is worth living and you go for it everyday.
Mom, you are a wonderful listener, learner and teacher- much beyond the classroom. People like learning from you because you are kind and patient in the way you explain things. You are very willing to invest of yourself to make a difference in others lives and you do this professionally and personally with excellence and care. It is very apparent that you enjoy being with and making happy those you love. You enjoy seeing whatever movie, or playing whatever game because it is together time and we can all enjoy each other. You have a wonderful ability to do so many things at once. I have marveled many times at the way you can work full time, and do an amazing job at work, keep up your house, and still be available for family stuff. I'd love you just as much if your house wasn't kept up as well, etc, but I am amazed at your ability to do it all. You are willing to put in the work ahead of time so when the "event" comes we can all just relax and enjoy it. You listen and enjoy sharing what is going on in our lives, and share with us what you are learning. You are a genuinely likeable person, who people like being friends with and you are a wonderful mom and friend to me!
You both treat each other and others around you with respect. You are always so willing to give of yourself to help. You have taught us so many things by showing us and helping us.. Buying our first home we had no clue about all sorts of things we were going to need to do, but you pointed us in the right direction and helped us with pointers, your time, and even your money. Your house is beautiful because you both take the time to do what you need to to keep it up. It is a place people like to come to because it is a loving home where real people are allowed to live real life even if it might leave a scratch or whatever.
I am excited that our little boy will have grandparents like you. He will hear stories from us and from you that will tell of lots of fun times, many places lived and visited, and a rich heritage. Our little boy will enjoy your company and care.
I have always known I was loved and prayed for. I am sure I do not know all the tough decisions or sacrifices you had to make but I thank you for them.
Most of all, I am grateful for your many prayers, instruction, and modeling of the Christian life!
Love,
tricia